Why Most Organizations Get Tokens Wrong (And How to Fix It)
The Hidden Power of Tokens (And How Most People Get Them Wrong)
A hoodie, a badge, a simple trinket—these seem like everyday objects, but they have potential to carry immense meaning.
Yet, so many organizations get tokens so wrong.
They assume the value lies in the physical object itself. They think a logo-emblazoned gift is enough to foster connection. They mistake transactions for relationships.
The truth? A token’s power isn’t in its material worth—it’s in the meaning we attach to it.
Let’s explore what makes a token truly powerful and how you can use them effectively to build and strengthen community.
What Makes a Token Meaningful?
A good token isn’t about the price tag. It’s about the story it tells and the connection it represents.
Consider this:
Many organizations distribute gifts like sweatshirts or mugs with logos. If people love the organization, they may enjoy receiving them. But too often, these gifts are handed out indiscriminately, missing the opportunity to infuse them with deeper significance.
Instead of saying, "Here, take a free sweatshirt," imagine saying:
"We’re giving you this sweatshirt because of the time you’ve dedicated to our community. We want you to have it as a reminder of your contribution and connection to us."
That simple framing, if honest — taking mere seconds— can transform a generic item into something meaningful.
When we don’t do this, we not only strip the item of meaning, but we risk making the gift feel transactional. If you tell someone, “You volunteered five days, so here’s a sweatshirt,” they might think: Wait, I didn’t volunteer for a sweatshirt. My time is worth far more than that.
A poorly framed token very often weakens a connection instead of strengthening it.
Private Tokens vs. Public Tokens
Tokens come in two forms: private tokens that carry deep personal meaning and public tokens that serve as credentials.
A private token is something meaningful to an individual but might not hold significance for others—like a letter from a mentor, a gifted watch from a grandparent, or a personal keepsake.
A public token, on the other hand, carries recognition and status—like military insignia, academic degrees, or awards. These tokens must be carefully given to maintain their integrity.
If an organization hands out a credential too freely, it dilutes its meaning. Imagine if anyone could get a military badge without meeting rigorous standards—it would devalue the badge for those who earned it.
This is why organizations must be intentional about who receives their public tokens and the standards required to earn them.
How to Use Tokens Effectively in Community-Building
If you’re leading or managing a community, here’s how to create tokens that genuinely strengthen relationships:
1. Keep Tokens Inexpensive—The Meaning Matters More Than the Cost
Expensive gifts can create an unintended sense of obligation. Lower-cost or handmade tokens ensure the true value lies in the meaning behind them.
2. Use Tokens to Mark Milestones
Think about the natural transitions in your community:
When someone moves from a visitor to a full member
When someone reaches an anniversary (1 year, 5 years, etc.)
When someone achieves a personal or professional milestone
Offering a token at these moments can make them memorable and reinforces belonging because it shows others notice maturation and change.
3. Differentiate Tokens for Different Levels of Engagement
Imagine a radio station handing out T-shirts. Instead of treating all T-shirts the same, they could print white T-shirts for general promotion and black T-shirts exclusively for dedicated fans.
By making certain tokens exclusive, their perceived value increases if there is real meaning to the exclusiveness.
4. Make the Presentation of the Token Meaningful
Never hand someone a token without context. Always explain why they’re receiving it and what it represents.
A simple sentence, when honest, like “We appreciate your commitment—please accept this as a reminder of your impact in our community” changes everything.
Final Thoughts: A Small Change, A Big Impact
Tokens are powerful tools for deepening connection and belonging—when used correctly.
The power doesn't come from material value because they don't work as a transaction.
They work when they are connected with recognition, appreciation, and storytelling.
So the next time you give someone a token, tell them why it matters.
Watch the full episode here: The Art of Community Conversations Episode 6
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